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Yes, You're a Failure 🙌


Accepting failure as a part of our story can be a difficult and uncomfortable concept for many of us to embrace. We are often taught to fear failure, to avoid it at all costs, and to view it as a reflection of our abilities and worth as individuals. But what if we looked at failure as an opportunity for growth and learning? What if we embraced failure as a necessary step on the path towards success?


We are about to have a mindset discussion…..let’s go there.


The truth is, failure is a natural part of the learning process. It's how we learn, grow, and develop our skills and abilities. We often learn more from our failures than our successes, as failure forces us to reflect on what went wrong and how we can improve.


However, embracing failure is not always easy. It can be painful, humbling, and even embarrassing. But, there are a few things we can do to help us navigate failure in a more productive way…

  • Instead of viewing failure as a negative thing, try to see it as an opportunity for growth and learning. Reframe your mindset to view failure as a necessary step towards success. You just experienced something you never want to do again, now you know why, before you were unsure, now you know.

  • It's important to take ownership of your failures, rather than blaming external factors. This allows you to identify areas where you need to improve and take action to make changes. Hello failure, I recognize you for what you are, you will not overcome me, I know you and I will equip myself better from this failure. Now I am more experienced.

  • Be kind to yourself when you experience failure. Compassion. Compassion. Compassion. No one is perfect. Just learn from it!

  • Take time to reflect on your failures and identify what went wrong. Use this information to make changes and improve your approach in the future. For me a lot of times it’s a communication thing, or a time I didn’t trust my instinct. Now I'm a great communicator and I trust my gut more and more. I also talk to my mentors about my failures, they help me process the steps and gameplan moving forward. Do you have a mentor?

  • Don't let failure hold you back. Use it as motivation to keep pushing forward and striving towards your goals. Nobody goes straight up with no road bumps. The people who seem to be at the highest peaks have seen the darkest valleys.

Ultimately, embracing failure is about recognizing that it's a natural part of the learning process, and using it as an opportunity to grow and improve. It's not always easy, but with the right mindset and approach, we can turn failure into a stepping stone towards success.


Take a few moments to reflect on your failures with these journal prompts:

  1. How do you typically respond to failure? Do you tend to avoid it or embrace it? Why do you think that is?

  2. Can you think of a time when you experienced failure? What did you learn from that experience?

  3. What fears do you have around failure? How do those fears hold you back from reaching your goals?

  4. Think of a goal that you've been hesitant to pursue because of fear of failure. What would happen if you took action towards that goal despite the fear?

  5. What would it look like to approach failure as an opportunity for growth and learning? How could this mindset shift impact your life?

  6. How do you typically talk to yourself when you experience failure? Is your self-talk supportive and compassionate, or critical and harsh?

  7. Who are some people in your life that you can turn to for support and encouragement when you experience failure? How can you cultivate those relationships?

  8. What steps can you take to practice self-compassion and kindness towards yourself when you experience failure?

These prompts can be helpful for reflecting on your relationship with failure and identifying ways to embrace it as a necessary step towards growth and learning. Remember, failure is not the end, but rather a stepping stone towards success.


Yours,

Jillian











 

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